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@swatiparekhji You are a good child to your mother. Thanks so much for sharing. I hope you also get the help you need to take care of yourself. Your own health and well-being is as important as your mum's. Take care and feel free to share here in our community forum, ok?

As a parent-caregiver, do you know when to seek help? Tell us how you process difficult feelings and why it’s important to do so.

How can I support my friend who is a caregiver?

What are some gender stereotypes that should be broken down and what else can we do to advocate for gender justice?

@emiedecastro For me, I would really consider the faith and the belief system of the person before saying anything God-related. I totally agree with what you said about encouraging medical/professional advice though! And I'd add, we need to listen - really listen - to our friend and try to look at things from our friend's perspective and not our own.

@lynnchan I love what you shared, Lynn. There is a marked difference between listening to understand and listening to reply. It is good for all of us to learn to listen more and accompany our loved one in what they go through as a way of showing our care and support.

What can we do to make caregiver issues more visible so that they can get the support they need?

@emiedecastro Love what you said about gratitude! Making the conscious choice to be grateful has really helped me get through some tough days. When it comes to worrying, I find that sometimes I tend to worry about things beyond my control (like this pandemic), and it makes me feel utterly helpless. But I've found that sometimes coming up with small actions I can take (like doing my part to be socially responsible) and trusting that everyone is doing the same (if not more) often helps me put my worries to rest, or at the very least calms it down. Sending lots of love to everyone trying to navigate this crazy times! <3

How do you juggle the desire to care for loved ones and the need to care for yourself?

@emiedecastro Thanks for sharing, Emie! I like how you've customised your giving so as not to be taken advantage of. You inspire me to be creative in the way that I give to others. Thanks so much for that!